DIVORCING YOUR GRANDMOTHER by Jean Gould (Morrow: $15. 95. She is, we gather, reticent, practical-minded and down-to-earth, and the relationship between her and her flamboyant husband seems to fit the expression "tough love" Over and over, Havel begs for more letters, and for more details about her daily life. "Until 1947-within the lifetime of half the world's population-the government in London ruled more land and people than any other government in history" And to many who remember the world as it was, surely the ending of Britain's world empire and Great-Power role is the greatest global change of the past generation-a series of events titanic in scale and titanic in evil consequence. What has happened since 1947 is the subject of Lapping's book, as it was of the TV series on which it is based and of which he was the producer. He is not alone in wondering what might become of the America he knew as a child Langley cites Gov. has remained (despite some whopping bungles, but never so lively or interesting. "City of Boys" also included in this year's "Editor's Choice" concerns a young woman who strays from her female lover to see what the story is with boys Her lover is everything to her, she says, ". When a bully at the playground taunts him for not having a real mother, Peter shouts, "I want you to know I am a very special child My parents chose me out of hundreds of children.

Paul Kennedy, professor at Yale, kicked the trend into high gear with a thick tome with a thick name, "The Rise and Fall of the Great Powers" Kennedy's less-than-startling thesis, that empires rise and empires fall, has won him a surprising stay on the best-seller list and 15 minutes of fame. Yet one of the better stories deals exactly with this loss-but does so with a poignant sensibility and a lucid voice. Instead, he sets himself the attainable aim of telling us what we want to know about Keynes' life. "If you'd been a groom in the royal stables and you'd dressed up like the king, you'd have been put away for it. He has taught in various universities, and was at one time the director of linguistic studies at a research laboratory. That was the reason for my coming" Unlike most foreign missionaries, winning converts was not as important to Father Kovalski as being a simple presence. "Reckless Eyeballing" like Reed's other novels, self-consciously appropriates aspects of familiar forms-in this case, the detective formula and the search-for-selfhood motif (the latter virtually synonymous with "serious" black writing-but then demolishes these structures by introducing his own distinctive blend of discontinuity, verbal play and jive talk, and outrageous (often offensive) humor. Early on in "Reckless Eyeballing" one of the book's many beleaguered black men observes that "throughout history when the brothers feel that they're being pushed against the wall, they strike back and when they do strike back it's like a tornado, uprooting, flinging about, and dashing to pieces everything in its path" This passage provides a perfect entryway into Ishmael Reed's latest novel, for like many other black men, Reed obviously feels that "the brothers" are catching it from all sides-and not just from the usual sources of racial bigotry, but from '60s liberals now turned neo-conservatives, from white feminists who propagate the specter of the black men as phallic oppressor, from other racial minorities anxious to wrest various monkeys off their own backs.

The boy's questions about Mexican-Americans confounded him back then and serve as the inspiration for his adult investigations today. The book suffers from a marked lack of editing, which would have spared the author such gaffes as "the sole fulfillment of sexuality is sexual experience" and other such gnomic statements. Depending on which you choose to believe, DeLorean is either one of the world's most misunderstood visionaries, or a con man. Although presented as "an essential-as well as an essentially American-biography" the book contains no bibliography, only a ludicrously incomplete filmography and an equally inadequate list of Disney animators and their work.

"One must learn, at least, to put a name to everything" Bernhard loved him, almost simply Not quite, though. The AEC used media professionals to convince a doubting public that there was no hazard, no need for even the simplest measures to protect themselves against nuclear fallout. America's atomic-testing program began with a 19-kiloton nuclear explosion, "Trinity" on July 16, 1945, on a 30-meter tower at Alamogordo, N. M, disseminating 1,500 tons of radioactive fallout downwind. Thus, I fear, too many marriages are dissolving in these pages. Works that venture into this strange territory that eludes language inevitably are difficult and complex "Odd Number" is no exception.

The present book is one that will be most appreciated by those who know most already about the philosophies it addresses. Lee Redfield, the travel writer, arrives in Kodiak from London to visit a sister who hates him. He paints a vivid picture of the early settlement around Cape Town, where his first relatives set foot. The tale of a penniless immigrant struggling to establish himself is inherently interesting, but the telling is so lifeless that it resembles an expanded resume. Two of the freshest, Beth Nugent's "City of Boys" and "The Johnstown Polka" by Sharon Sheehe Stark, were culled from The Northwest Review and West Branch, respectively.

Smith's calling was to capture "life as it is" and the excellent reproductions of his classic, poignant images including Country Doctor, The Nurse Midwife and those of the crippled victims of mercury poisoning in Minamata, Japan, make this illustrated biography a magnificent book. It is both comic and touching-in a way, her activities were the only life he could have-and it would irritate a saint"Show them how a Christian can die" was one of the cheerful defiances thrown out by the early martyrs; and the example assisted the conversion of many, among them, the man who became St Paul. He arrived in town just as the great Paris 1855 Art Exhibition, the first of its kind, opened-a multitude of framed pictures, 5,000 of them, crowding every inch of wall space and rising to the ceiling of the huge exhibition hall. "A neglected work that has become legendary in its very absence raw, probing, mercilessly unsentimental" (Malcolm Boyd Letters on Cezanne, Rainer Maria Rilke (Fromm. "When Jim Crow Met John Bull" was initially published in England last year and constitutes the first major analysis of this 1942-45 period of Anglo-American confusion.

But the reader is forewarned by the word "fable" in the subtitle. Pioneered in 1935 by the prominent Portuguese neurologist Egas Moniz, the procedure was accomplished with a thin cutting instrument called a "leucotome" which was inserted into the brain through holes drilled in the skull. Mud on hair not dirty' "Don Julian had been very impressed with this logic, and from that time on, Chona was known by the name he gave her- La Zoquetosa , 'the muddy one' She was very proud of it and used to tell people that Chona was only the name she had been given, but Zoquetosa was the name she had earned" From age 3, young Eva was in the saddle, helping her father with the livestock, riding the "rock horses" (a strain of the Spanish horse) which she so highly praises in this book "I took to the trails at will Diamante (her horse) my faithful companion, my playmate But he was also my protector. She is, we gather, reticent, practical-minded and down-to-earth, and the relationship between her and her flamboyant husband seems to fit the expression "tough love" Over and over, Havel begs for more letters, and for more details about her daily life. "Mailer: His Life and Times" Peter Manso (Penguin: $9. 95) presents the writer and activist in the eyes of those who know him, from William F Buckley Jr and Allen Ginsberg to Jack Henry Abbott and Andy Warhol. Alan Simpson, saying of the 1986 Immigration Reform Act that "It's a monstrous S. O. B. "Holy Anorexia" focuses on restrictive eating or fasting, a widely noted component of ascetic practice and spirituality in the Middle Ages.

The Japanese also have fallen heir to the fears that used to be directed at the Americans. Though the famous "Monkey Trial" made a mockery of the creationism in many sectors of the nation, fundamentalist tide still ran strong in the rural South. Church groups generally declared it ethically justifiable (a conclave of French Catholics decided that a lobotomized priest could not hear confession but could teach at a university. But the story becomes taut and compelling as it picks up speed and the reader sees previously suppressed conflicts open like raw sores. Even his prose suffers, particularly when he dots Sarah's language with Buddhist terminology.

Bill Moyers, in his superb TV documentary "The Secret Government" aired last fall, made the case for the second; namely, that the American empire is a threat to constitutional democracy at home. All of this is chronicled-with graphic detail, lucid prose and often probing insights-in letters he wrote between ages 19 and 32. We get a wonderful portrait of Olga, even though none of her letters are printed. Government, technology and organized society, as we know them today, are gone, victims of successive cataclysms of war, riots, looting and environmental disasters. Especially since it moves us away from Miner's somewhat forced lectures on social ills and into the richly contradictory matter of why people like Chrissie escape from their feelings through endless good works-and why people like Margaret try desperately to avoid thinking they're part of "a world that contained more than two people at a time" Here Miner's tough, spare prose turns wonderfully eloquent, summoning up the jealousy and fear, the self-delusions and the brave soul-searching, that make up Margaret and Chrissie's personal dialectic.

Much has been written on the subject of Merton's own changes, his later ambivalent feelings toward the only family and the only home he knew for half his lifetime. The budget director portrays his boss as a sweet old man, too shallow to comprehend what Stockman insists on calling the "Reagan Revolution" too politically sensitive to slash programs that benefit special interests. One of the pioneers of that new technology, Louis Jacques Mande Daguerre, tried to hide the camera's limitations, selling his device without describing his methods: "The exquisite minuteness of the delineation" Daguerre said in 1839 to Samuel Morse, "cannot be conceived" But motion is implicit in most of the photos: Cheyenne and Arapaho tribesmen, for instance, dress in white and black near the North Canadian River in Oklahoma Territory, doing the Ghost Dance in one of the last pathetic moments of Indian resistance; mule trains arrive in a little get-rich-quick town in Montana, while prospectors mingle with developers. Lone Star: A History of Texas and the Texans, T R. Raban, of course, is writing a sardonic parable about his country's decline, and about the illusions and mutual social isolation that keep it from finding new energies. It dialectically pronounces a "yes" and "no" to those efforts without relaxing the demand to make them. When two or more eligible interpretations of the applicable law exist, judges must choose among them by asking which shows the community's legal standards in the best light from the standpoint of justice and fairness. Will he be seen, 50 years from now when the dust has settled, as a figure to set beside the "gigantic dwarf" Balzac? Is he, perhaps, a small titan-or bigger than that? The demigod has always been shadowed by another Hemingway-to some people boring, repellent and/or pathetic.